peace begins at home

Children begin by loving their parent,
after a time they judge them, rarely if ever do they forgive them.

Thursday, November 05, 2009

najwan n beach lagiii.......



Najwan was so eager to go to d beach and since it was fasting month, we decided to go in the morning so it wasnt too hot, alas ada yg posa yang yuk nanti.
He was so happy there.. digging the sand showing to as to'che never been to beach before.. running and spalshing in the water (didnt have time to snap pics)... yohoo!!! and there were only US at the deserted beach apart of the afar fishermen which we can see and hear their small fiber boats...
just arrived....




najwan was showing to'che how to dig laju2 n to'che with a pail in case ada siput remis but unluckily the siput remis were too small to collect

Sunday, August 16, 2009

Najwan's Big Event...

when Najwan was 3 years of age, a paediatric. told us to circumcised him early as his 'bird' is not as 'usual' as the other kids'. however we ignored the advice coz we thaought he was too small at that time and may be we could not handle him after the procedure. then, when he was around 5 years, we noticed his bird was somewhat strange when urinating, so took him for another paed. for 2nd opinion and the advice was the same... EARLY CIRCUM.... haiyooo... ciannya...


At last, July on 14th, we opted for the 'sleeping method' as advised by the doc. actually Najwan was at first willing to be circumcised (we kept mentioning the matter to him bcoz of his 'unusual' bird. but then at last minute he was refusing even to go to doc. or hospital. after a few sessions of Q&A, and lots of promises (or is it Bribery???) and two transformers (the toys that weere sold at petronas stations) , then he reluctantly agreed... what an good boy... one of the questions he asked his papa b4 entering the operation room was like this:-

N: papa, kenapa kite kena sunat?

P: ermmm... Najwan nak jadi BIG BOY tak?

N:nak.. (nodding his head, silent for a moment) papa dah ker?

P: papa dah...
a day after the operation..with the robot toy...
luckily Umi didn't throw away his baby play gym...

Monday, July 06, 2009

Fishing Trip


Najwan was seen concentrate really hard, or trying hard to be patient.. (mana ikan nie?)
It was Najwan's 1st time fishing trip... the location is at 'parit gali' at the back of TokChe's house. he heh just 5 minutes walking distance ...


belakang umah tokche... one wouldn't expect after that rows of cocnut trees are the villagers home.

fishing rod Najwan was of Tok Nyang old fishing rod, from bamboo, and we didn't put any 'mata kail' on it [SAFETY FIRST], just pemberat made of steel and Najwan still thinks that was 'mata kail'.
the winner was Ayah Chik for all categories: the first who catches fish, the biggest fish, the most fish catches.... and so on.
this one count as the biggest fish... he heh.. conclusion: in this parit gali only ike puyu exist, the others??? may be gone to extinction due to inappropriate conditions.
look at Najwan's frowning face, actually he was scared to hold that 'living' ike puyu... but he was eager to show Umi that he can do it...

Thursday, July 02, 2009

Najwan's Dialogues (at age 5)


pic here self-taken by him.
In the morning... when he woke up, still in his bed, before getting his bath:-

Dialogue 1:
N: Umi, Najwan sayang kat papa..
U: naper??
N: sebab boy dengan boy. Umi! boy dengan boy, KAWAN, girl dengan girl, KAWAN. boy dengan girl, KAWIN.... (smiling with his dimples shown)
U: ???? (apa aku nak komen nie??)

Dialogue 2:
anytime when he was upset with his parents (means Umi most of the times.. Papa always ikut telunjuk dia)
In march '09: Kalau Umi tak dengar cakap kite nanti kite marah!!!
In end of June '09: Kalau Umi tak minta maaf nanti kite pegi jauh2 sangat... nanti Umi tak jumpa kite...
and once i hear that.... kuss semangat, my child is trying to 'threaten' me???

Dialogue 3:
Early 2009:
when my car meragam: nanti kite beli car baru untuk Umi. Umi nak warna apa?
when Umi says we don't have enough money: Nanti kite besar kite bagi Umi duit byk2...
Mid 2009:
When Umi talking about saving money and not to buy too many toys/Dora CDs/hotwheels collection: nanti kite besar kite cucuk duit banyak2... Umi nak hotwheels warna apa? (Alahai Annakku)

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